I got dumped coz of my small assets

Hi, I am a 20 year old girl. I was in a relationship for the past 2 years. Recently, when we got physically intimate, my boyfriend got repulsive seeing my small boobs. Since then, he is ignoring me and messaged me that “you cannot satisfy me, therefore our relation is over”. I am in a state of shock. Please help me to find out a solution. Can I go for a surgery?

Dear reader, I can completely empathise with your situation. First of all, you must understand that your small assets are not your fault. I know that this makes a woman complete and is pretty disappointing for a woman. But, is this all your boyfriend needs you for? Of course a relation leads to physicality in the end, but an emotional bonding is one thing that keeps the relation strong.

Don’t befool yourself in getting emotionally upset despite knowing the fact that he just wanted you physically and not emotionally. You are a mature 22 year old girl, you must feel happy about the fact that all this happened at the correct stage.

Now, lets come to the problem of your small B***S,. There is nothing harmless you can do that makes any great variation logically to your breast size, but you may well enlarge a curvier figure over the next few years even if you don't grow any taller.

Having any sort of surgery without having a medical need is risky and you're still so young to have something so radical. You can do exercises to strengthen the muscles around your chest but this may only give you an uplifting appearance, rather than change the breasts themselves.

Wait a few years and see how you feel then. We all have parts of our body we dislike but, you can boost your self-confidence by enhancing those parts of your body which you do like.